What I Learn from My Threesome Experience

I am a middle-age woman and I have been in a lifestyle of tinder threesomes with my husband since I was just in the early of my 40’s. After keeping such a kinky lifestyle for many years, I learn a lot of things from it and we all appreciate the decision we made, until now. Living a swinger lifestyle indeed helps us spice the life up and it our life is full of excitement and fun, no matter when and where. During the past few years, we were getting closer and closer to each other when we enjoyed our happy life.

However, things didn’t work for us at the beginning. We encountered a lot of problems with our partners since we didn’t have any experience before our first tinder threesome. But now, we are able to get along well with our partners and we can easily deal with all kinds of difficulties as well, even if with a new partner. We don’t often get into casual meet me threesomes because we prefer to keep a long-term relationship with a fixed partner and this also benefits us a lot.

To maintain a good relationship with your partner, you have to learn to respect. Maybe you are willing to try everything without limitations in a threesome, but for other people, they may not think so. Therefore, giving your partner the right for some rules and boundaries is very important. Besides, as long as you are aware of what you can do and what you cannot do, you should follow these rules and never try to do something excessive with any excuse. Since your partner is interested in such a wild life, he/she must be an open person and he/she may be willing to try something new after a few successful hookups with you.

When you are in the same room with your partner, you should initiate a conversation instead of going to bed immediately, especially if this is your first meeting. Good communication between you three is able to help you break the awkward atmosphere and it is really a nice warm-up for your next step. You can talk about something interesting in your life or exchange ideas about threesomes in order to make sure you are not as nervous as before.

So far as we know, most threesome lovers prefer to keep this life a secret and they also hope you can zip your mouth. So, you should avoid asking too many questions about their private details, no matter how intimate you think you are. If your partner trusts you, he/she will tell you something you are interested in. It’s not good for you to ask too much, but it doesn’t mean you cannot contact your partners when you are apart from each other. Making a phone call or sending an email occasionally is permissible, and it also helps you to get to know each other better.